You need to start treating people like people, not achievements.
I love getting tired of loving that someone though…
Because it hurts that they are not with you?
Why would a spouse cheat if the marriage is good?
If you relate to all the first cases you need to, above all, accept, that they are not gonna either stay with you, and nor are they ginna get away from your past.
But do make sure you aren't only lost in their thoughts, cry but only when it’s been too much.
If you're the type of all second cases, then, acceptance is still a must but,
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Stop fawning at others and work more on yourself, understand that getting that one person isn't the only thing.
Now, while it may not be just a ‘she’ it might also be a ‘he’. What’s more important to know, is that, you can’t exactly delete someone from your head. Infact forcing.
Because the one you cared for doesn’t care for you?
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You want to forget him/her completely. But ever thought why? And what do you mean by getting over?
Although if you're just a stubborn egoistic obsessed insecure immature teenager, grow up. Understand that you just feel that you can shift the orbit of the universe if you get your dream girl, BUT YOU CAN'T.
~KSR
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Because only you LOVED?
If you do remember them occasionally and feel like crying, don't resist, cry, it'll gradually reduce on its own.
Or because it hurts because they are with someone else?
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Because you were just unlucky in love?
It's as harmful and futile to try to force forget, as much as it is to try to force get someone.
Or because she doesn’t love you back?
How can I stop overthinking and take action more quickly?
Because they aren’t what they showed themselves to be?
Or are you just jealous and he/she hurt your ego by rejecting you?
Or you just over-cared expecting the same in return but are now disappointed?
Why does Boko Haram attack its own Muslims?
Focus on other things, and people, stay busy, stay lively, work, make goals, have hobbies, have friends and relax.
Or because you had created a random perfect image of them and they just broke your delusion?
You're an obsessed/insecure/desperate simp/immature, depending on actions you did.
Why are there so many girls and not enough boys to follow?
Because you are in sorrow without them?
True love, if one sided, does hurt and we want to forget or get over people, just keep going on with life, keep living and you'll get over it.
Or because they’re happy without you.
Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support.
I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized.
he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that.
he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened.
he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence.
i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me
i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction.
after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly.
things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it.
we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe …
our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far?
this has upset me so much its hard to even function.
